Subamma “Selvi” Naidu 10 June, 1942 – 29 January, 2025
CONTRIBUTE
TO MEMORY TIMELINE
My deepest sympathy to the families may Atha soul rest in enteral peace from the Govender and Ramlukan families South Africa
In loving memory of Nurse Atha, a truly remarkable woman whose strength, courage, and kindness changed the course of our lives. It’s hard to put into words just how much of an impact she had on my family and on me personally. It was her selfless decision to help us move to Australia that laid the foundation for all the opportunities I have today. Because of her, my family was able to start a new life course, and I’ve been fortunate enough to experience countless blessings and chances that I may never have had otherwise. Her unwavering strength and deep sense of who she was have always been an inspiration to me. Nurse Atha wasn’t just a life-changer for my family—she was a beacon of hope and a symbol of resilience. I will forever be grateful for her unwavering support and the opportunities she created. May she rest in peace, knowing the incredible legacy of love and change she leaves behind. You will always be in my heart. Your loving grand niece, Megan Nair
Atha, your precious memories will always be remembered. You held a special place in our hearts. Your contagious laugh always brought joy to those around you. Mesi, our sincere condolences to you and your family. Your Angel mum will be watching over you. We pray that Ather's soul attains eternal moksha. With lots of love from us all in S A. (Vickey Govender Family).
Dearest friend and colleague, I remember with great joy, your laughter, stories and our deep and meaningful almost daily conversations and political debates spanning 20 years together at HPCHC. You claimed the brain the size of the size of the universe (mine was a just a planet). Your, curiosity, wisdom, fidelity, humour, advocacy, courage, love of whanau and sense of justice was always, and still is an inspiration to me. A true PHC nurse. So many happy aunty Selvi memories, stories (and recipes) our whanau love to share. We will always remember you with great joy and love, as I am sure your whanau and mokopunas do. Pauline, Ranui, Rachel and whanau xxx
A Life of achievement: wonderful wife, mother and Grandmother Well respected continence nurse who generously shared her knowledge and skills , teaching junior doctors and nurses, kind and thoughtful to patients and their families Fondly remembered our time together: studying at Flinders University, travelling overseas to conferences. We always had fun even we were bedridden with gastro in Cairo You bought food and gave to the homeless in San Francisco, the hotel was so impressed and treated us with Rose Tea Farewell my dear friend Rest in Peace with your darling Jerry
Selvi and I started the Continence service in South Western Sydney way back in the 90's. Selvi was not only a great colleague but a fab friend and mentor. She will be missed. Sending much love to the whole family and I am left with very happy memories of our time working together and seeing each other out of work too. I will stream online on Friday xx
Dearest Nurse Atha my name is unique all because of you choosing this name for me. You was so dear and precious and all the fond memories I have of you will remain forever in my heart. Thank you always showing us the meaning of love and kindness. Go well and may your beautiful soul rest in eternal peace.
This is a tribute from Kay Govender- Pines wife. Pine and Selvi were the youngest brother and sister amongst the Govender sibling's. Thank you "Hurse" for laying the foundation for me to provide my children, Yugen, Vino and Kevin to reach their success in life. Love you for ever until we meet again.
Selvie, you were the best friend anyone could wish for.I am ever so grateful for having met you. You brought comfort, advice and support whenever life got tough and the way forward was unclear.You were like an older sister, so I confidently turned to you for guidance.This world is a better place for all your caring and commitment to the well-being of others. Rest in peace my beautiful friend. Eileen and David
To our sister in law Selvi, our hearts are saddened and you will be missed. The fond family memories will be held onto forever. May you rest in peace with our dear brother Jerry. Much love from Pushpa & Devi. Xx
My fondest memories of Aunty Selvi, growing up in SA, was our family gatherings at Atha’s house in Umhlatuzana. Her bubbly personality and shrills of laughter- one could not surpass it was Aunty Selvi’s! Years later.. 2018, uncle Jerry and Aunty Selvi reached out to me when they moved to Melbourne. I was their long lost niece! We had some great conversations about our nursing experiences and shared memories. Rest in peace Aunty Selvi. I will always remember your vibrant personality. Go well and reunite with Uncle Jerry 🙏🏽
Dear Aunty Selvi, I have shared an office with you for over a decade and have shared many stories of our sorrows and joy. What I remember most is your courage and strength but mostly the joy in your laugh. You taught me how to be strong when faced with challenges with grace and calm. May you rest in peace and be united with your beloved husband. I am saddened to learn of your passing and send my condolences to your family .
My Dearest Atha, you are no more but your sweetest of memories will last forever. This is what the closest of people remember is memories, memories of good times we enjoyed in life, and some of the things we can laugh about. We spent beautiful days from my childhood to me being a young man and a grandfather. The days we spent taking you to the Australian Embassy to sort out your emigration documents. It sad we have say our good bye in this way. You will always be in our thoughts. That part of the Govender generation is no more, but the next generation are there for each other. Fly with the Angles till we meet Jay Govender ( and family Priscilla, Cindy, Vishagren, Riccardo, Elijah and Noah Late Vicky's family. Condolences to Omeson and family, although we are far away You are in our hearts
My deepest condolences on the loss of your Mum Omeson. She is now amongst the Angels and with Dad in Heaven May her Soul Rest in Peace Aunty Faye Kippi Ana Karushka & Family Korsheda & Family
Selvi, You left us with lots of wonderful memories, I remember our early years living in Merebank,conversations riding the bus to high school,being my big sister & mentor as a nursing student at King Edward, Being so close to me during the loss of my classmate Hazel & encouraging me to be strong & go on with my studies. Thank you for seeking me out ,when we lost contact with each other after we both emigrated to Australia & USA, I appreciated you visit to Dallas,after your conference in San Francisco to spend some time with me. Your sincere,love,care and guidance will always remain with me. Rest in Peace my dear friend, you will be missed. My sincere Condolences to Omeson & Family,The Naidu & Govender Family
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It is with heavy hearts that we pen this message of condolence on the sad passing of our dear sister-in-law, Selvi Naidu. Selvi, you and my dear departed first cousin Jerry, left us with a flood of beautifully precious memories as we travelled our respective journeys as two young married couples. We did hot rods car racing together, enjoyed many coastal resort holidays back in South Africa and here in Australia, not to mention our numerous fishing adventures. We celebrated the ushering in of countless new years together. We have fond memories of your 50th wedding anniversary celebrations together. So many precious memories, too numerous to mention. Thaths’s Farm, Queensburgh, Umhlatuzana, Kearns and Melbourne. May the good lord in abundant grace grant our dear nephew Omeson, together with the Naidu and Govender families, friends and relatives in South Africa and in Australia, the fortitude to bear this great and irreplaceable loss with courage and understanding, as our beloved Selvi goes to meet our Maker.
Dearest Sinai Where do I even begin... You have impacted so many lives in so many ways. Your always loving and caring nature brought smiles and joy to every person you engaged with. Your impact on my life is immeasurable. I always told you thank you and appreciated you for the true, authentic human you were. Thank you for being my Sinai, for always being present for every milestone, form when I was born, to every birthday, to my marriage, to the birth of my daughter, to my husband's death. Nothing stopped you from being right here with me in South Africa. Your work on this earth is finally complete, now it's time for your rest. Will love you always Sinai, and your place in my heart will never be replaced. I'm sure Uncle Jerry is smiling and excited to have you back with him love you Sinai... Maggie& your memory box Dharusha
Dearest atha your memories will remain with me until I'm no more Thanks for all u have done for Vimla and myself. The memories are still fresh in my mind of Uncle Jerry coming to pick me up on weekend to spend time with Omeson.Thank you atha for installing the good quality of life and love in our lives .We pray for ur soul to R.I.P.frpm Elvis and Vimla
What a gracious send-off for Atha! An end of an era as the last of the Govender siblings has gone home. Jerry Mama as well as Pine, AP & all those siblings will welcome you with open arms. Farewell Atha. Rest in eternal peace.....you've earned it. Sincere condolences to Omerson & all the families.
Tribute to a Wonderful Aunt We gather in love and remembrance to honor the life of a truly remarkable woman— our beloved aunt. Atha was more than just a relative; atha was a guiding light, a source of endless warmth, and a presence that made the world feel kinder and brighter. Atha your kindness knew no bounds. Whether through a comforting word, a warm embrace, or the simple yet profound act of listening, you made everyone feel valued and loved. You had a way of turning ordinary moments into cherished memories, filling our lives with laughter, wisdom, and unwavering support. You was my confidante, my cheerleader, and a mum. Your love was never conditional, and your generosity was given freely—not just in material ways, but in time, patience, and the gentle encouragement that helped me believe in myself, when I did not. Your legacy lives on in the lives that you touched, in the lessons you taught, and in the love you so freely gave. Though our hearts are heavy with grief, we find comfort in knowing that you are at peace, watching over us with the same care you always did. We will miss your signature laughter, your wisdom, and the warmth of your presence, but we will carry your love in our hearts forever. Rest in peace, dear aunt—you will never be forgotten. in my family for generations to come. We carry you as you carried us. From Krishnee and Eugene Andre, Christine, Pascal, Nardean, Megan, Aaleyah, Elijah, Amelia 🙏🧡
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On behalf of the Govender family - I want to thank you for holding the mantle so well. Your brothers loved you “their baby sister “ and you made them proud. I treasure all our time spent together not as sisters in law but as sisters. Rest in peace my beloved “S” You are in the arms of Jerry and the family now Love you
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My deepest sympathy to the families may Atha soul rest in enteral peace from the Govender and Ramlukan families South Africa Read full message here.
In loving memory of Nurse Atha, a truly remarkable woman whose strength, courage, and kindness changed the course of our lives. It’s hard to put into words just how much of an impact she had on my family and on me personally. It was her selfless decision to help us move to Australia that laid the foundation for all the opportunities I have today. Because of her, my family was able to start a new life course, and I’ve been fortunate enough to experience countless blessings and chances that I may never have had otherwise. Her unwavering strength and deep sense of who she was have always been an inspiration to me. Nurse Atha wasn’t just a life-changer for my family—she was a beacon of hope and a symbol of resilience. I will forever be grateful for her unwavering support and the opportunities she created. May she rest in peace, knowing the incredible legacy of love and change she leaves behind. You will always be in my heart. Your loving grand niece, Megan Nair Read full message here.
Atha, your precious memories will always be remembered. You held a special place in our hearts. Your contagious laugh always brought joy to those around you. Mesi, our sincere condolences to you and your family. Your Angel mum will be watching over you. We pray that Ather's soul attains eternal moksha. With lots of love from us all in S A. (Vickey Govender Family). Read full message here.
Dearest friend and colleague, I remember with great joy, your laughter, stories and our deep and meaningful almost daily conversations and political debates spanning 20 years together at HPCHC. You claimed the brain the size of the size of the universe (mine was a just a planet). Your, curiosity, wisdom, fidelity, humour, advocacy, courage, love of whanau and sense of justice was always, and still is an inspiration to me. A true PHC nurse. So many happy aunty Selvi memories, stories (and recipes) our whanau love to share. We will always remember you with great joy and love, as I am sure your whanau and mokopunas do. Pauline, Ranui, Rachel and whanau xxx Read full message here.
A Life of achievement: wonderful wife, mother and Grandmother Well respected continence nurse who generously shared her knowledge and skills , teaching junior doctors and nurses, kind and thoughtful to patients and their families Fondly remembered our time together: studying at Flinders University, travelling overseas to conferences. We always had fun even we were bedridden with gastro in Cairo You bought food and gave to the homeless in San Francisco, the hotel was so impressed and treated us with Rose Tea Farewell my dear friend Rest in Peace with your darling Jerry Read full message here.
Selvi and I started the Continence service in South Western Sydney way back in the 90's. Selvi was not only a great colleague but a fab friend and mentor. She will be missed. Sending much love to the whole family and I am left with very happy memories of our time working together and seeing each other out of work too. I will stream online on Friday xx Read full message here.
Dearest Nurse Atha my name is unique all because of you choosing this name for me. You was so dear and precious and all the fond memories I have of you will remain forever in my heart. Thank you always showing us the meaning of love and kindness. Go well and may your beautiful soul rest in eternal peace. Read full message here.
This is a tribute from Kay Govender- Pines wife. Pine and Selvi were the youngest brother and sister amongst the Govender sibling's. Thank you "Hurse" for laying the foundation for me to provide my children, Yugen, Vino and Kevin to reach their success in life. Love you for ever until we meet again. Read full message here.
Selvie, you were the best friend anyone could wish for.I am ever so grateful for having met you. You brought comfort, advice and support whenever life got tough and the way forward was unclear.You were like an older sister, so I confidently turned to you for guidance.This world is a better place for all your caring and commitment to the well-being of others. Rest in peace my beautiful friend. Eileen and David Read full message here.
To our sister in law Selvi, our hearts are saddened and you will be missed. The fond family memories will be held onto forever. May you rest in peace with our dear brother Jerry. Much love from Pushpa & Devi. Xx Read full message here.
My fondest memories of Aunty Selvi, growing up in SA, was our family gatherings at Atha’s house in Umhlatuzana. Her bubbly personality and shrills of laughter- one could not surpass it was Aunty Selvi’s! Years later.. 2018, uncle Jerry and Aunty Selvi reached out to me when they moved to Melbourne. I was their long lost niece! We had some great conversations about our nursing experiences and shared memories. Rest in peace Aunty Selvi. I will always remember your vibrant personality. Go well and reunite with Uncle Jerry 🙏🏽 Read full message here.
Dear Aunty Selvi, I have shared an office with you for over a decade and have shared many stories of our sorrows and joy. What I remember most is your courage and strength but mostly the joy in your laugh. You taught me how to be strong when faced with challenges with grace and calm. May you rest in peace and be united with your beloved husband. I am saddened to learn of your passing and send my condolences to your family . Read full message here.
My Dearest Atha, you are no more but your sweetest of memories will last forever. This is what the closest of people remember is memories, memories of good times we enjoyed in life, and some of the things we can laugh about. We spent beautiful days from my childhood to me being a young man and a grandfather. The days we spent taking you to the Australian Embassy to sort out your emigration documents. It sad we have say our good bye in this way. You will always be in our thoughts. That part of the Govender generation is no more, but the next generation are there for each other. Fly with the Angles till we meet Jay Govender ( and family Priscilla, Cindy, Vishagren, Riccardo, Elijah and Noah Late Vicky's family. Condolences to Omeson and family, although we are far away You are in our hearts Read full message here.
My deepest condolences on the loss of your Mum Omeson. She is now amongst the Angels and with Dad in Heaven May her Soul Rest in Peace Aunty Faye Kippi Ana Karushka & Family Korsheda & Family Read full message here.
Selvi, You left us with lots of wonderful memories, I remember our early years living in Merebank,conversations riding the bus to high school,being my big sister & mentor as a nursing student at King Edward, Being so close to me during the loss of my classmate Hazel & encouraging me to be strong & go on with my studies. Thank you for seeking me out ,when we lost contact with each other after we both emigrated to Australia & USA, I appreciated you visit to Dallas,after your conference in San Francisco to spend some time with me. Your sincere,love,care and guidance will always remain with me. Rest in Peace my dear friend, you will be missed. My sincere Condolences to Omeson & Family,The Naidu & Govender Family
It is with heavy hearts that we pen this message of condolence on the sad passing of our dear sister-in-law, Selvi Naidu. Selvi, you and my dear departed first cousin Jerry, left us with a flood of beautifully precious memories as we travelled our respective journeys as two young married couples. We did hot rods car racing together, enjoyed many coastal resort holidays back in South Africa and here in Australia, not to mention our numerous fishing adventures. We celebrated the ushering in of countless new years together. We have fond memories of your 50th wedding anniversary celebrations together. So many precious memories, too numerous to mention. Thaths’s Farm, Queensburgh, Umhlatuzana, Kearns and Melbourne. May the good lord in abundant grace grant our dear nephew Omeson, together with the Naidu and Govender families, friends and relatives in South Africa and in Australia, the fortitude to bear this great and irreplaceable loss with courage and understanding, as our beloved Selvi goes to meet our Maker. Read full message here.
Dearest Sinai Where do I even begin... You have impacted so many lives in so many ways. Your always loving and caring nature brought smiles and joy to every person you engaged with. Your impact on my life is immeasurable. I always told you thank you and appreciated you for the true, authentic human you were. Thank you for being my Sinai, for always being present for every milestone, form when I was born, to every birthday, to my marriage, to the birth of my daughter, to my husband's death. Nothing stopped you from being right here with me in South Africa. Your work on this earth is finally complete, now it's time for your rest. Will love you always Sinai, and your place in my heart will never be replaced. I'm sure Uncle Jerry is smiling and excited to have you back with him love you Sinai... Maggie& your memory box Dharusha Read full message here.
Dearest atha your memories will remain with me until I'm no more Thanks for all u have done for Vimla and myself. The memories are still fresh in my mind of Uncle Jerry coming to pick me up on weekend to spend time with Omeson.Thank you atha for installing the good quality of life and love in our lives .We pray for ur soul to R.I.P.frpm Elvis and Vimla Read full message here.
What a gracious send-off for Atha! An end of an era as the last of the Govender siblings has gone home. Jerry Mama as well as Pine, AP & all those siblings will welcome you with open arms. Farewell Atha. Rest in eternal peace.....you've earned it. Sincere condolences to Omerson & all the families. Read full message here.
Tribute to a Wonderful Aunt We gather in love and remembrance to honor the life of a truly remarkable woman— our beloved aunt. Atha was more than just a relative; atha was a guiding light, a source of endless warmth, and a presence that made the world feel kinder and brighter. Atha your kindness knew no bounds. Whether through a comforting word, a warm embrace, or the simple yet profound act of listening, you made everyone feel valued and loved. You had a way of turning ordinary moments into cherished memories, filling our lives with laughter, wisdom, and unwavering support. You was my confidante, my cheerleader, and a mum. Your love was never conditional, and your generosity was given freely—not just in material ways, but in time, patience, and the gentle encouragement that helped me believe in myself, when I did not. Your legacy lives on in the lives that you touched, in the lessons you taught, and in the love you so freely gave. Though our hearts are heavy with grief, we find comfort in knowing that you are at peace, watching over us with the same care you always did. We will miss your signature laughter, your wisdom, and the warmth of your presence, but we will carry your love in our hearts forever. Rest in peace, dear aunt—you will never be forgotten. in my family for generations to come. We carry you as you carried us. From Krishnee and Eugene Andre, Christine, Pascal, Nardean, Megan, Aaleyah, Elijah, Amelia 🙏🧡
On behalf of the Govender family - I want to thank you for holding the mantle so well. Your brothers loved you “their baby sister “ and you made them proud. I treasure all our time spent together not as sisters in law but as sisters. Rest in peace my beloved “S” You are in the arms of Jerry and the family now Love you