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Lisa & Anita Fitzgerald-Morris on 26 October, 2025 at 6:31pm

Dear Ollie , Hazel and Chase ,
Over 5 years ago we meet your beautiful mum Amber with Annie on WOW and on other walks especially the WOW BCNA 21km walk back in May 2025
I shall always remember how happy and Inspirational your beautiful mum was as she was always smiling and happy no matter what life circumstances she was experiencing with her illness and loving everyone she meet with her gorgeous personality and smile and was so proud of her 3 children her precious gifts
I enjoyed having conversations over the last year cheering Amber on and talking about the Dees and you all her biggest love
Those we love don’t go away , they walk beside us everyday
There are no goodbyes for us as your beautiful mum Amber will be always be watching over you all forever with in your beautiful hearts
Sending you all love and hugs
Lisa & Anita 💖💖

Dina Dee on 25 October, 2025 at 12:08pm

“The stars we lose become the constellations that guide us.”
May Amber rest in peace, and her legacy of love, strength and inspiration be eternal.
My deepest condolences to Amber’s family and loved ones, may she rest in peace. ✨🕊️

Mariti Weiss on 24 October, 2025 at 12:38pm

I haven't met you but I have " known" you through your mother's eyes and the work you've put into WOW. I know how brave and courageous you have been in this journey. Your memories and legacy will live on through your children, your family, your communities and the lives you've touched. Rest in Peace, Amber.

Rose micallef on 24 October, 2025 at 4:23am

Dear Hazel, Ollie, and Chase,

We are deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful and kind mum Amber She touched the hearts of everyone who knew her.

I knew your mum when she was a little girl playing tennis tournaments — she was always the prettiest and happiest player on the court. From the photos and stories I’ve seen, it’s clear how much she grew into a loving, caring, and strong woman.

Your mum loved you, Ollie, Hazel, and Chase, more than anything in the world. She was so proud of each of you. You brought her endless joy and gave her so many reasons to smile.

I am so sorry for what has happened, and I hope you always remember how deeply your mum loved you and how special you are to her. Her love will always be with you.

With all my love and deepest sympathy,
Rose Micallef

Lor xoxo Nicol on 23 October, 2025 at 10:12pm

Forever in my heart and memories. You taught me so many things in so many ways with the biggest impact being to love hard and live life to the fullest.

So many amazing experiences we had together over the past 10years and I’m grateful for every single one of them.

Your last words to me were ‘you’ll look after my kids’ and I absolutely promise I will.

Heart is hurting right now but I wouldn’t change a thing for loving you as much as I do and always will ❤️

love you more ….

Tahlia Douglas on 23 October, 2025 at 8:56pm

Dear Amber, I wish I had known you sooner and for longer but every time I saw you seemed like we had known each other for a lifetime. You always put a smile on my face and you continue to do so. I will miss your spontaneous messages “Hey I am coming to Bali just booked see you next week” You will always hold such a special place in my heart. Love you forever xx

Mel Carlisle on 23 October, 2025 at 8:15pm

My incredible and gorgeous cousin. I will always admire your positivity, your strength, the love you had for your children, your family and friends. I will forever be inspired by your approach to life. Your light will continue to shine through everyone who loved you. We are all better people to have had you in our lives. I will love you forever.

Rachel Vella on 23 October, 2025 at 7:51pm

I'm so sorry 💔i wish I had the time to get to no you better but. We where far away. But you were always in my heart ..but you're always will be my niece 🙏you will always be in my heart ❤️ I'm sure that you are near dad hugging each other 🙏❤️

Katherine Rowe on 23 October, 2025 at 6:18pm

Amber, you will be missed by so so many. I will always remember you for your humour and fun, determination and strength. You fought with all you had. F*** cancer. Fly high beautiful xx

Laura Garratt on 23 October, 2025 at 12:37pm

Dearest Amber,
You used to babysit my cousins and I when you were 12 and I was 8. You were the most beautiful girl I had ever seen and the most amazing role model. I looked up to you so much. You had the biggest and kindest heart and adored babies and children. You were such a powerful light in the world and made all of us feel so special that you would spend your Friday night hanging out with us kids instead of being out with your friends.
I will never forget the impact you had on my childhood. Adore you and your family. Xxxxx

Suzana Zambiasi on 22 October, 2025 at 10:24pm

Dear Amber, you fought a long hard battle never losing your sparkle or desire to live life to the fullest and you made sure to create many wonderful memories with your loved ones to the very end. You cherished small and big moments, inspiring many and I hope those special memories together give them all strength and comfort whenever they miss you. Your smile, energy and warmth will always be remembered by all who met you. I tried to dig up the photo of us in my lounge room holding our big baby boys. Now teenagers. Our paths crossed many times, family, Pilates, tennis, basketball, work, me buying beauty products from you and then the kid’s school. The beauty of a wonderful local community that we lived in and which you were so active in.
My family are sending lots of love to yours. You have an incredible tribe in your life which will hold your children close. Rest peacefully now Amber xx lots of love to your family xx

Megan Marshall on 22 October, 2025 at 4:38pm

Gorgeous & brave Amber, I could remember you for the wild , fun nights out so many of us shared together as MPPS mums but for me it’s the small quiet things you did that nobody else necessarily knew about. You were so kind , open & generous with not only me but my kids. Thank you for being unapologetically you.
Love and condolences to your beautiful children & family.

Jane Morrison on 22 October, 2025 at 4:36pm

My love to all of you on your unimaginable loss. Amber was a beautiful human being and so precious to many.

Trevor Blackhurst on 22 October, 2025 at 4:03pm

Remembering Amber with fond memories from years ago. My thoughts are with her family, friends and her community. An enormous loss for all of us.

Carmen Mullenger on 22 October, 2025 at 1:25pm

It was an honour to walk beside you Amber. I know how much you adored your children, your family and your beloved Dees. I hope the moments we created can now be beautiful memories for everyone that loves you. Today’s celebration of your life was just beautiful, you would’ve been so proud of your people 🫶 You have impacted so many and your legacy will absolutely live on. Fly high beautiful Amber xxx

Paul Maley on 22 October, 2025 at 12:39pm

I met Amber at the BCNA Pink Lady match as a fellow ambassador for the event. I was struck by her beautiful, positive energy and outlook. I'm certain that her passing has left an enormous hole in her family and amongst all of her friends and colleagues. Sincerest condolences to all of her loved ones, she was indeed an amazing young woman.

Rebekah Grubb on 22 October, 2025 at 11:20am

You always lit up the room , with a huge smile on your face. You were so full of grace and beauty you will be missed by all those whose hearts you touched. Love to your family and your beautiful children. Rest now beautiful ❤️

Diane Bond on 22 October, 2025 at 11:09am

Beautiful service, Amber will walk beside you every day. Hold tight to your precious memories.🌹❤️🙏

Joe cuda Cuda on 22 October, 2025 at 10:21am

Rip amber we will miss you thanks for all the laughs at the flower shop and being a great friend lv heaps your flower man joey xx

Julie Fidler on 22 October, 2025 at 9:52am

Such a bright light, radiating warmth, love, kindness, and fun gone way too soon… Amber, you truly were a remarkable human who continued to evolve and attacked every challenge head on with positivity and courage… You inspired and helped so many and lit up every room you entered…
A truly amazing daughter, mother and friend…
Such a privilege to have known you all your life and walked beside you..
I particularly loved our Kindness journey together and your belief and support in my vision … I will keep your memory alive in my journey and you will always be in my heart…
Love and hugs..
Julie Fidler.. xxxx

Lisa Daye on 22 October, 2025 at 8:44am

Feeling deeply for the family with the enormous loss of beautiful Amber.
Lovely memories of Amber with the Daye family at Kerang Easter tournament.Amber and Kylie were a dynamic duo in the junior doubles at Kerang!🙏🏽

Tori Grech on 22 October, 2025 at 6:47am

Dearest Amber!
Jason and I only met you this January at a health retreat in Queensland! Eden! It’s a lifetime experience that simply cannot be shared, no amount of words will never describe the friendships and bonds that are formed! We connect on such a truly deep level when you have nothing but each other’s company! I miss our breakfast lunch and dinners all our chats, sun baking by the pool! You told Jason and I so much you gave us strength that we didn’t know we had watching you be so strong. You are such a beautiful amazing person and we are forever grateful for the time we got to share with you, forever a guardian angel for your three beautiful babies. We love you. 🩷🩷

Elissa Mariani on 21 October, 2025 at 10:38pm

Dear Amber,
I’ve been thinking so much about the time we shared, and I just want to say thank you. Thank you for your friendship, your love, and the part you played in such a significant chapter of my life.

We met all the way back in Year 7, and some of my favourite memories are from those early years. The sleepovers, getting ready for parties, walking through school life together. It was all so fun, so full of energy, and you were always at the heart of it.

You were always so kind, so full of warmth and light. You made things feel easy. And as time went on, I watched from afar with such admiration as you became a mum to your three beautiful children. You were an inspiration, Amber, even if I didn’t get the chance to tell you that.

I’m heartbroken that you’re gone. But I know the people who knew you will carry your memory with them, just like I will.

Thank you for everything you were to me. Thank you for the laughs, the memories, and for being part of my life.

Fly high, beautiful girl 🤍
You will never be forgotten.

Love always,
Liss xoxoxo

Christine Vickers-Willis on 21 October, 2025 at 10:26pm

In Loving Memory of Amber
Amber you left far too soon.
A loving Mum, Daughter, and Sister.
You fought with Incredible Courage 💜never letting go of Hope, even in the darkest moments.
Your Love and Spirit Live on in Ollie, Hazel and Chase - In their eyes, their smiles, their strengths, and in the memories of your Children, Family, and Friends.
You told me you cried yourself to sleep when Ruby passed away, she was your rock.
Ruby waited patiently for you to cross the rainbow bridge.
Now you’re reunited with Ruby by your side.🌈🐾
Rest Peacefully Amber
May your spirit shine bright in your
Forever home.

Mim Langer on 21 October, 2025 at 9:46pm

Dearest Annie and family my deepest sympathy on the passing of your beautiful Angel Amber.
Although I only meet Amber briefly on the day of 17 klm walk organised by Amber to raise money for BC it was evident she was a strong determined, caring and a gracious young lady.
Her hugs were generous as was her spirit to help others. To Amber's 3 children, I know the beautiful memories are not like your mother's hug but I know she will be surrounding you always.
Dearest Amber no more pain or treatments fly high dear one and RIP. 🕊
Mim

Justin Turner on 21 October, 2025 at 7:51pm

To Dearest Amber. Our hearts are so broken to hear of your departure from this life. What a courageous young lady you were. Even from so far away we could tell you were a magnificent mother and loving daughter. Our memories are full of joy from your visits to our home and ours to yours. Thank you for sharing your special energy with us. To your loving family our thoughts and love are with you all and we share your loss. Lots of heart felt love Justin, Mirabei, Kiani and Jake.

Alison Bates (Dowsett) on 21 October, 2025 at 3:30pm

Dearest Amber,
It is with such sadness that I write this message. Our times spent at Brighton Beach Primary together, as well as Firbank are such happy memories. Sitting at the back of the bus on the way to swimming lessons and fearing versing you in PE tennis (your talent was exceptional!) are standouts, along with us all being amazed how much you looked like young Katherine Heigl in the movie ‘My Father the Hero’!! Since school finished we saw much less of each other, but I have always been in awe of what an incredible Mum you are, how you devoted your life to your children. I hope your children find some comfort knowing how endlessly loved they are, how lucky they are that you are their Mum.
Sending all my love to your family.

LOUISE HUNTER on 21 October, 2025 at 1:28pm

Beautiful Amber, I am so sorry to hear of your passing. You fought a long, difficult and courageous battle. And showed so much strength and inspiration to all of us. Most of all you were an amazing mum to your 3 wonderful children.
I look back so fondly on our memories of primary school and secondary school together.
Sending so much love to all of those who are struggling right now especially your beautiful children, your sisters, parents and your amazing friends.
Your legacy lives on through your children and your amazing work with the BCNA.
Rest in peace.
Lou

Amber Aprile on 21 October, 2025 at 11:39am

I'm so sorry to learn of the loss of Amber. She was one of my very first friends when I moved to Bayside as a child, and she and her family all welcomed me with kindness and warmth. She was so beautiful and genuine. Sending condolences, love and best wishes to her children, sisters and parents, extended family and friends. RIP Amber.

Melissa Moyle - BCNA on 21 October, 2025 at 11:24am

To Amber's family and friends,
I am so sorry for your loss. May her children find peace in their memories of their beautiful mum.
As a BCNA team member, I am grateful for all that Amber did to support others affected by breast cancer and to spread awareness. Her voice will have helped countless others diagnosed with breast cancer and encouraged others to get tested.
May your Amber rest in peace.
My regards, Melissa

Bec Stephens on 20 October, 2025 at 8:56pm

What a warrior you were Amber. You smiled, supported and soldiered on through more pain and anguish most of us will ever know. You have shown your kids strength and resilience beyond belief. I feel privileged to have been touched by your kindness and warmth and will you remember and be inspired by you always. Rest peacefully amazing girl xx

Shantelle Grant on 20 October, 2025 at 9:40am

Beautiful Amber, our paths crossed, from different worlds yet so the same. Our souls connected from deep within, you are and will be forever in my heart 🩷 I am so so grateful for your love and friendship. I will forever watch over your beautiful family, your inspirational mumma, your babies and your beautiful bestie whose hearts are broken facing life without you. You are my forever loved my friend, rest now, fly with the angels 🩷

Kerrie Wilson on 19 October, 2025 at 10:40pm

I remember when we first met many many years ago and u 3 girls bonded with my 2 girls and we have stayed in touch ever since, sweetheart spread those wings and fly as high as you can, we will look for you in rainbows 🌈 sweet dreams beautiful girl xxxx

Emily Abbott on 19 October, 2025 at 9:36pm

Amber, you were such an incredibly strong woman and amazing mum to your three gorgeous kids. You were a true inspiration. Sending lots of love to your fam, life just isn’t fair. X x x

Rach Scerri on 19 October, 2025 at 8:48pm

Beautiful Amber, I’ve been in awe of you since the night I met you. I remember thinking to myself at dinner, this woman is so fun and unapologetically herself. I want to be more like her! You had such a glow about you and you were so damn funny!! I love how you made time for everyone, you planned our family trip this year and actually made it happen. Those days with you in Rye this year, I will treasure forever. You brought us all together and I got to truly see what an amazing mum you are. The shock of this week hasn’t worn off yet and I am deeply devastated by your passing. I think of you constantly and I hope you have found peace now, special girl. You were larger than life and your impact is undeniable. You are so loved and so missed.

Diane Bond91 Strzelecki Way Corryong vic 37074 on 19 October, 2025 at 8:02pm

RIP beautiful girl 🙏🌹

Debs Walters on 19 October, 2025 at 7:39pm

Amber my darling.. You came into my life and my family in 2006 after the birth of my baby Lola. As a newborn, Lola was quite unwell and I needed help with my other 2 daughters, Kit and Remy, aged 3 and 2 as I was in and out of hospital with her. You stepped in to care for Kit and Remy and at such a young age, you were so mature, loving and fabulous and the girls and I loved you to bits. You literally saved me during that time. Muchas gracias my darling Amber.
You were a huge part of our family until we moved to the UK when Lola was 2. However we always stayed in touch. I saw you become a wife and mother and loved seeing Ollie, Hazel and Chase grow up.
It wasn’t until April this year that we actually caught up face to face at my Casa in Spain. I got to meet your amazing kids and bestie Kate. We had the most amazing time, it was like we had seen each other last week.
I fell in love with Ollie, Hazel and Chase, they are a testament to how loving a Mum you were. ( I hate writing were, instead of ‘are’) and Kate was the most amazing friend you could hope for.
I am so happy to have had you in my life, and appreciative of our friendship. You are the most courageous, strong and loving woman I have ever known. Over the coming days and years, I will walk fast my fridge with the polaroids of you and the kids on our Spanish holiday and sometimes smile or laugh and sometimes cry. I will love you forever, you crazy chick ! Xxx

Lauren Bruns on 19 October, 2025 at 7:31pm

I love this photo of us. I was 16 and you were 14. A true stunner. Flawless. Inside and out. You loved a good party and were always so much fun.
We met when we were barely teens. Shared most school holidays together and celebrated many New Years parties together. My favourite was 1999/2000 when we dressed up as the cutest millennium bugs.
It’s quite annoying that back then cameras/photos were way harder than they are these days, there are so many uncaptured memories we share.
I loved coming to your house in Dendy st for sleepovers and you taught me how to play tennis. I sucked but you were so patient.
Fast forward a few years, we both fell pregnant with our first babies at the same time. What a joy it was when we spent so much time together with our little babies. I still have photos of us taking Ollie and Mia to their first Gymbaroo sessions.
I’ve loved sharing the kids birthdays together and seeing them grow up.
Distance and time has kept us apart but nothing stopped our messages and chats. Still always checking in on eachother from afar and commenting on our SHEIN hauls for any holidays 😂.
Unfortunately you were unable to come to my 40th birthday due to illness but still posted me a beautiful gift that I will cherish forever.
Amber, you will be dearly missed but your love and memories will be with us forever.
Love you. Xx

Kristen Gibson on 19 October, 2025 at 6:43pm

Beautiful Amber you fought so incredibly hard, a true testament to the mum you are to your beautiful kids. I was honoured when you asked me to take part in the BCNA campaign and truly believe it's going to make a huge difference in early detection for breast Cancer. You are loved and will be forever missed by so many. Love you & ill see you in our dreams 🩷💖

Jenni, Dave and Millie Thom on 19 October, 2025 at 12:57pm

We are so grateful for Amber's contributions to our community, at Mentone Park Primary School and the the wider BCNA network, both large and small. There is no neutral, and Amber embodied this. We send our love to Amber's family and friends, and especially to Hazel, Ollie and Chase. x

Kate Porter on 18 October, 2025 at 7:34am

Amber, my beautiful, fun, determined friend. It was such an honour and privilege to be your friend. From meeting you at a Pink Hope fundraiser event I was hosting all the way back in 2015, to running our own fundraisers together and watching you shine your light everywhere you went. You were one of a kind. A real Earthside Angel. You’ve taught me all about grit, resilience, love and how to stay grounded during the most difficult times. And damn we had some fun girl. My heart is broken with your passing. But I promise you that I’ve got your kids and will love them like my own.

It was only a few months ago you wrote about how you wanted to be remembered. And it is such an honour to share your words with your friends and family. You wanted to be remembered as someone who lived with her whole heart. Who didn’t give up, even when life felt impossible. As someone who kept showing up. For her children. For her people. For herself. You wanted to be remembered as real. Not polished or perfect. But honest. Brave. And endlessly loving.

As the mum who lived for her kids. Who adored them, protected them, and loved them with everything she had. Who turned pain into purpose and didn’t leave this world quietly, but with her heart wide open, leaving light behind. That is your joy. That is your legacy 🩷

I love you, always forever

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